I hate the term cougars also and I love yanking your chain.
I love David's talent and aura a lot but
I don't have any fangirl feelings for him (at this point) and I really don't have time for another distraction....Taylor takes up enough of my time and heart.
At the risk of TMI....I am a perfect example of a woman reaching her "peak" at 35 and showing no signs of waning in the coming years well past 35.
I saw an episode of Dr. Phil about "cougars" and aside from the sexual stamina of younger men, they are just more vibrant, spontaneous, active etc. than many men in their 40's and 50's. These older men are either tired and lazy and have lackluster libidos or they are not interested in women their own age and want a 25-30 year old. So there you go....it ain't easy finding and keeping that romance, passion, and love alive. We all lose beauty with age and certainly after a few babies, the body suffers big time but if you can grow old gracefully TOGETHER it's wonderful IMO.
I will be screaming for David and Michael right next to you at the Verizon Arena!